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Digital Legacy Guides

Short, practical explanations for the decisions that usually get postponed.

Family help

How to help your parents organize their digital life

Start with reassurance, not control. The goal is to reduce future stress, not inspect every private account. Ask where important documents are, who their trusted helpers are, and what would be hardest for the family to find in an emergency.

  • Begin with practical items: phone passcode, email access, doctors, bills, and insurance.
  • Offer to sit together for one short session instead of assigning homework.
  • Use the full parent guide for conversation scripts and a simple plan.

Emergency access

What to do first if a loved one cannot manage their accounts

Focus on safety, bills, communication, and legal authority. Do not guess passwords, impersonate the person, or close important accounts before you understand the consequences.

  • Secure the phone, email, medical contacts, and active bills.
  • Find estate documents, power of attorney, or executor paperwork.
  • Use the emergency access guide for a step-by-step checklist.

Voice and video

How to record legacy messages for loved ones

Voice and video messages can preserve your tone, stories, and encouragement for future moments. Keep them simple, store them safely, and make clear who should receive them.

  • Record short messages for specific people or milestones.
  • Store copies in more than one secure location.
  • Use the voice and video guide for prompts and privacy tips.

Passwords

How to leave passwords safely for family

Use a reputable password manager with emergency access or family sharing. Give your trusted person instructions for where to find access, but avoid printing a full password list that can be lost, copied, or outdated.

  • Use one strong master password and store it separately from your device passcode.
  • Add recovery codes for email, banking, and cloud storage.
  • Review emergency access settings after major life events.

Photos

What happens to your photos after you die?

Your photos may live across phones, cloud accounts, external drives, messaging apps, and social platforms. The most loving thing you can do is leave a map.

  • Name the main photo libraries and where backups are stored.
  • Create shared albums for family history and important milestones.
  • Export a copy of irreplaceable archives to a drive or family cloud folder.

Accounts

Digital accounts your executor may miss

Executors often find bank accounts and insurance policies. They may miss domain names, cloud storage, creator accounts, payment apps, loyalty balances, crypto wallets, and subscription software.

  • Include financial, sentimental, administrative, and business accounts.
  • Mark each account as cancel, transfer, archive, preserve, or delete.
  • Include renewal dates for domains, hosting, and storage.

Trusted people

Choosing a digital executor

Choose someone organized, discreet, and comfortable with technology. They do not need access to everything today. They need to know where your plan is and when they are allowed to use it.

  • Use a primary helper and one backup.
  • Keep legal authority separate from casual access.
  • Tell them what matters most: photos, finances, messages, business, or privacy.